Control: The Ultimate Happiness Killer
Most of us spend a lot of time diligently planning for our future, trying our best to create positive outcomes down the road while we avoid any unnecessary pain or problems. But, what happens when we also try to control what’s already happened to us in our past and let it take control of our present and future? Seems like a lot of wasted effort, right? We can’t change what’s already happened to us or what people have done to hurt us, yet most of us struggle to put that past